You are using me? Are you?
Why i got the feeling that you keep a lot from me?
Do you love me?

Q: When is the best time to do istighfar?
Ans: In the early morning hours (sahur).

Give yourself permission to be the brand new you by doing istighfar in the early morning!


Allah says in Surah Ali-Imran verse 3:17:
الصَّابِرِينَ وَالصَّادِقِينَ وَالْقَانِتِينَ وَالْمُنفِقِينَ وَالْمُسْتَغْفِرِينَ بِالْأَسْحَارِ ﴿١٧﴾

Which means:
"The patient, the true, the obedient, those who spend [in the way of Allah], and those who seek forgiveness before dawn. (17)"


And again in Surah Az-Zariyat verse 51:18:
وَبِالْأَسْحَارِ هُمْ يَسْتَغْفِرُونَ ﴿١٨﴾

Which means:
"And in the hours before dawn they would ask forgiveness, (18)"

We all love Allah s.w.t., but our love for Him will not overcome His grand love for us. Seek forgiveness from Allah s.w.t. in istighfar insyaAllah Allah s.w.t. will forgive us and change our life for the better!
Allah says in Surah Nuh:
فَقُلْتُ اسْتَغْفِرُوا رَبَّكُمْ إِنَّهُ كَانَ غَفَّارًا ﴿١٠﴾
يُرْسِلِ السَّمَاءَ عَلَيْكُم مِّدْرَارًا ﴿١١﴾
 وَيُمْدِدْكُم بِأَمْوَالٍ وَبَنِينَ وَيَجْعَل لَّكُمْ جَنَّاتٍ وَيَجْعَل لَّكُمْ أَنْهَارًا ﴿١٢﴾
 مَّا لَكُمْ لَا تَرْجُونَ لِلَّـهِ وَقَارًا ﴿١٣﴾

ENGLISH TRANSLATION:
And said, 'Ask forgiveness of your Lord. Indeed, He is ever a Perpetual Forgiver. (10) He will send [rain from] the sky upon you in [continuing] showers (11) And give you increase in wealth and children and provide for you gardens and provide for you rivers. (12) What is [the matter] with you that you do not attribute to Allah [due] grandeur (13)

No. I tried to wait to let this matter rest but today it still bother me that much.
You did not tell me. "Cuci mata"

Am i not pretty enough?
Am i not good enough for You to see?

I know where i stand.

I never look at other guys and say cuci mata.
The only time i look is the guys from television. Not realistic.
Unlike you.

And if you think im not important to you.
Tell me love.
I will back out.

sometimes we can suddenly feel hurt or upset by
something minor. When this happens, it usually isn't the result of what's going on in the
present, but it's because some hurt from the past was triggered. If you find yourself
feeling scared or upset, just be open and tell

"Anger makes you  smaller, while  forgiveness forces you to  grow beyond what you  were" - Cherie Carter- Scott   

"The past is a foreign  country; they do things  differently there" ~Lesley  P. Hartley   

"To be wronged is  nothing unless you  continue to remember  it" - Confucius?   

"There's no point in  burying a hatchet if  you're going to put up a  marker on the  site"  ~Sydney Harris?   

"Sometimes good things  fall apart so better things  can fall together"-  Marilyn Monroe   

"Holding on to anger is  like grasping a hot coal  with the intent of  throwing it at someone  else; you are the one  getting burned" - Buddha   

"No matter how well you  nurse a grudge, it will  never get better" -Joyce  Smith  

 "No one can go back and  make a brand new start,  my friend, but anyone  can start from here and  make a brand new end" - Dan Zadra 

 "Once a woman has  forgiven her man, she  must not reheat his sins  for breakfast" Marlene  Dietrich   

"Forgiveness does not  change the past, but it  does enlarge the future"  - Paul Boese   

"We are all here for  some special reason.  Stop being a prisoner of  your past. Become the  architect of your future" -  Robin Sharma 

 "We must embrace pain  and burn it as fuel for our  journey" - Kenji  Miyazawa

 When two people are in a relationship, they should bring out the best in one another.  

They should challenge each other to grow so that their attributes strengthen and they become the best versions of themselves. 

 When a relationship crushes you and forces you to shrink, placing a dark mask over the things that make you shine, there are problems brewing.

One person isn't supposed to have absolute power, a relationship should be a democracy, not a dictatorship.